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Tips for Healthy Living

Our lifestyle can have a big impact on how we feel. When we don't take care of ourselves, we can experience a number of problems, including sleep difficulties, fatigue, low energy, trouble concentrating, and increased tension and stress. These problems can leave us vulnerable to anxiety and depression. Making healthy choices will help you feel better. Remember, the goal of developing a healthy lifestyle is to help us function at our best, not to eliminate anxiety or depression, because that would not be realistic. Having a healthy lifestyle puts us in a better position to manage the stresses of life. Here are some ideas for building a healthy lifestyle.

Set a Routine
Establish a routine by setting specific times for meals, work, housework, quiet time, and bedtime. We feel more secure when there is some predictability to our day. It also helps us get things done and reminds us to take time for ourselves. Having a routine can help you to set the stage to mange your anxiety or depression.

Regular Exercise
Regular exercise can have a positive impact on both your emotional and physical health. In fact, exercise is one of the most powerful tools for managing stress, anxiety and depression. However, it can be hard to start a regular exercise program. So, start small and work your way up. Aim for at least 20 minutes of physical exercise 3 or 4 times a week. You'll be more likely to stick with a program if you choose something you enjoy (such as skiing, hiking, gardening, or dancing). Try joining a gym, signing up for an exercise class, or finding a workout buddy. Find little ways to increase your physical activity, like parking further from the door, or taking the stairs.

Eat Healthy
Having a well-balanced and healthy diet can make you feel better. Eat consistently throughout the day and don't skip meals. Your diet should include a variety of foods. Wondering how to eat healthier? Try to reduce your salt and sugar intake, eat more fruits and vegetables, and drink more water. Aim for 3 meals a day and 1 or 2 healthy snacks. For more ideas on how to improve your diet, talk to your doctor or a dietitian, or refer to the Canada Food Guide.

Get a Good Night's Sleep
Sleep difficulties can contribute to anxiety problems and make it difficult to cope. Aim to get about 7 to 8 hours of sleep a night. However this is just an estimate. People differ on how much sleep they need and this amount can change with age. If you are experiencing sleep problems, talk to your doctor or refer to the section on Sleep Tips.

Establish Social Supports
It is important to have people in your life that you can count on. It helps to be able to talk to a friend when you have had a bad day or are struggling with a problem. Having a good social network has been linked to greater well-being. Having at least 1 good supportive friend can make a difference.

Learn to Relax
Using relaxation strategies can help lower your overall tension and stress levels. However, relaxation is more than just sitting on the couch watching television. What makes a difference is “deep” relaxation, which is the opposite of what your body experiences when it is under stress. Mindfulness exercises are tools to help your mind and body relax.

Manage Your Time
Learning to manage your time more effectively can reduce stress. Use a day planner to schedule your activities. This will help you see if you're taking on too much, and help you make time for the things you need to do. Remember to schedule your activities. This will help you see if you're taking on too much, and help you make time for the things you need to do. Remember to schedule some time for relaxation and fun activities each day.

Reduce Stimulants
Excessive caffeine can lead to sleep problems and heightened anxiety. Try to reduce your caffeine intake, which includes coffee, some teas, soda, energy drinks, and chocolate (many more products are starting to introduce caffeine as an ingredient). If you drink a lot of caffeinated beverages, it's better to gradually reduce the amount of caffeine that you have every day. Nicotine is also a strong stimulant. In addition to health benefits, quitting smoking may leave you less prone to anxiety.

Avoid Alcohol and Drugs
It is never a good idea to use alcohol or drugs to help you cope with anxiety; it just leads to more problems. If you have problems with anxiety, try to avoid using drugs and alcohol as a way to cope with negative feelings. If you think that you may have a problem with drugs or alcohol, talk to your doctor.

Get a Check Up
Make sure you are taking care of your body. See a doctor for regular check ups.

Reduce Stress
Sometimes life's demands become too much. Stress can have a negative impact on your health. Look for ways to reduce stress. Deal with problems, lean on supports, and take time for self care. For instance, plan some time for yourself each day to read a book, go for a walk, watch a favorite TV program, or relax. You can also reduce stress be giving yourself a little extra time to get to places so that you're not rushing. Try giving yourself an extra 5 minutes; it can make a big difference.

Helpful Hints

Start Small: Making small changes can have a large impact on your life. Don't try to do everything all at once. Instead, pick 1 or 2 things and try them consistently. When you're ready, try adding a new strategy. See Goal Setting module for more guidance.

Be Patient: These strategies can take time to have a positive effect. Hang in there and stick with it!

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